Happy New Year!!!!!

       

Happy New Year

       

Willing to make Life Balanced!!!!!

It is said that if you have a positive attitude your life becomes easy. But still we keep saying, life is hard. Around one and half year back, I was not so positive in my life and I was leading a simple life. Now, I'm more positive in my life but I lack the basic resource to support my physical life. Is it LUCK?????

Earlier, I was poor inside and so so outside but now I'm rich inside and poor outside. What I'm looking for is a balanced life both internally and externally.

Now, I have started thinking that it is a gift given to me and I want to utilize this gift. So far in my life, I have experienced one thing that we cannot control things happening. We cannot force nature, human or any creature to work in the way we want.

Like doctors say, if you take prevention, you won't fall ill but the reality is that even doctors suffer. But they are well equipped or qualified to control their problem and it won't bother them a lot as it does for a person who is not a doctor.

Is it really Luck or mindset of a person that makes life hard or easy?????

I have tried hard to be happy but still the happiness is out of reach.  I'm confident inside but still having a fear of future.

Some people say if you look for happiness and you don't find it, you start thinking negatively and start making life hard. Your negative state of mind attracts only negative circumstances in your life.

So, I decided to be more positive in life and hope for the best. From the deep of my heart, I can say that being optimistic made me really confident and positive internally. But the reality is that my external status of life is still suffering.

I think, I'm still missing something. Because if I can get balanced internally then there must be a way to be more balanced externally. Because to be happy externally is more easier than to be happy internally.

Well said By BRIAN TRACY:

Life is like a combination lock; your job is to find the right numbers, in the right order, so you can have anything you want.

I'm still curious how I can do this job of finding the right numbers in the right order :)

       

Soft Skills Development

It's been more than a year for me to be jobless. I have tried my best to find a job but this job gap and my age has played a vital role to keep me jobless. The reason is that many companies are having age limit of 30 and they don't want a gap in your employment. But these factors (Age and Job Gap) are not my creation. These are the natural circumstances which kept growing with the time.

But as I'm an optimistic person, instead of just sitting idle and waiting for a miracle to happen in my life, I worked towards improving my skills. I have improved my typing speed. I have developed Soft Skills.

I'm writing some tips, how I improved them while I kept my job search on by increasing my age and job gap :)

I had heard a lot that Soft Skill enhance your career. So, I decided to work on this and utilize my time.

Communication Skills : First I worked on my communication skills. Earlier, I was good in writing but not so much confident while speaking. So, I went through Grammar book and focused mainly on Tenses, Active Passive and Direct & Indirect Speech. My written communication skills were enhanced. I also kept watching YouTube videos and it improved my verbal communication skills as I learnt how to pronounce the words correctly and it also helped me to be a good listener.

Positive Attitude : It improved naturally as I am an optimistic person and even when I'm jobless for a long time, I have a hope for better carrier and future. So, I have become more confident and patient. So, always have a positive attitude that things will become better.

Team Work/Team Player : I am ready to share my experience and knowledge with team so I can work well with others. I accept their feedback and also appreciate their work. I concentrate on the work and the expected output instead of office politics.

Showing Commitment : I'm very dedicated towards my work. I believe in dedication, determination and discipline. As of now, I'm more confident, enthusiastic and enjoy hard work.

Thanks for this time which I got to improve my Soft Skills for a better career ahead and better personal life as well.

       

Yes, I'm an Introvert Person

I proud to tell this world that I am an introvert person. 
I still don't speak a lot but when I speak, I speak a lot.

Since my childhood, I was a guy who did not speak a lot. I only spoke up-to the point. I did not interfere in anyone's activity. I was only taking care of my own responsibility. Like, what I was directed, advised or told to do.

Yes, I was shy, not so confident, did not want to be a center of attraction, in earlier days. I'm still shy, but more confident, love to be a center of attraction but still love to pass more time alone. 

I remember, many people told me that I was a reserved kind of person. They told me that to be successful in life, I must be open in nature. 

If I look back in my life, they were wrong. Of course, I'm not so successful yet but I'm better than those extroverts who are not calm, not as confident as I am. My family members, my relatives, my friends, my co-workers, they all will say, I don't speak a lot. But when needed, I was the one, who spoke a lot whether it was a personal life or professional life.

A simple example from school, I was not speaking a lot but when teachers asked any question, I was the one who was speaking a lot and the ones who were extrovert, they became introvert :)

It is not like being an extrovert or introvert is going to decide whether you will be successful in life or not. It is again a mentality how people look or think in any situation. 

A simple example : For me being alone is "enjoying peace or being quite" but for other people it may be "no one around". 

       

किसी ने क्या खूब कहा है -

रख हौंसला वो मंज़र भी आएगा
प्यासे के पास चलके समंदर भी आएगा ।
थक कर न बैठ ऐ मंजिल के मुसाफ़िर
तुझे मंजिल भी मिलेगी और
मिलने का मजा भी आएगा ॥

सच मे, मंजिल उन्ही को मिलती है
जिनके हौंसलों में जान होती है ।
पंखों से कुछ नहीं होता , हौंसलों से उड़ान होती है ॥

       

Some motivational quotes by Great people!!!!!

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time - Thomas A. Edison

Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me - Carol Burnett

Infuse your life with action. Don't wait for it to happen. Make it happen. Make your own future. Make your own hope. Make your own love. And whatever your beliefs, honor your creator, not by passively waiting for grace to come down from upon high, but by doing what you can to make grace happen... yourself, right now, right down here on Earth - Bradley Whitford

Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking - Marcus Aurelius

If You Are Working On Something That You Really Care About, You Don’t Have To Be Pushed. The Vision Pulls You - Steve Jobs

Whether You Think You Can Or Think You Can’t, You’re Right - Henry Ford

Develop An ‘Attitude Of Gratitude’. Say Thank You To Everyone You Meet For Everything They Do For You - Brian Tracy