I proud to tell this world that I am an introvert person.
I still don't speak a lot but when I speak, I speak a lot.
Since my childhood, I was a guy who did not speak a lot. I only spoke up-to the point. I did not interfere in anyone's activity. I was only taking care of my own responsibility. Like, what I was directed, advised or told to do.
Yes, I was shy, not so confident, did not want to be a center of attraction, in earlier days. I'm still shy, but more confident, love to be a center of attraction but still love to pass more time alone.
I remember, many people told me that I was a reserved kind of person. They told me that to be successful in life, I must be open in nature.
If I look back in my life, they were wrong. Of course, I'm not so successful yet but I'm better than those extroverts who are not calm, not as confident as I am. My family members, my relatives, my friends, my co-workers, they all will say, I don't speak a lot. But when needed, I was the one, who spoke a lot whether it was a personal life or professional life.
A simple example from school, I was not speaking a lot but when teachers asked any question, I was the one who was speaking a lot and the ones who were extrovert, they became introvert :)
It is not like being an extrovert or introvert is going to decide whether you will be successful in life or not. It is again a mentality how people look or think in any situation.
A simple example : For me being alone is "enjoying peace or being quite" but for other people it may be "no one around".
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